Its nice that youre trying to calm it down and give it reasons not to be upset. Thats admirable. However what you dont realise is that it wants to be upset. It needs to be upset. Being offended is what it lives for. Its what nourishes it and helps it grow. Imagine, if you will, an organism that subsists entirely by feeding on its own sodium excretions. Yes, the image you have in your mind is, most certainly, @Bloodway.